K-I-S-S-I-N-G

Okay, so I watched J&K+8 last night . . . ho hum . . . it wasn't that great . . . the people over at GWOP (that's Gosselins With Out Pity people) are having a field day about how many times Kate said "I'm irritated" . . . and it was a bit over the top . . . she hardly does anything it seems except get irritated or annoyed . . .

Anywho . . . I was staying up late to finish a few projects I'm working on . . .

What came on TLC next was "The Duggar" family . . . this is the family with 17 kids and one on the way . . . they have very conservative values, watch very little TV, restrict their internet use to nearly nothing, home-school their kids and continue to have as many kids as God blesses them with . . .

Okay, I can go with most of that . . . I respectfully disagree with some of their opinions, but hey that's what makes the world go round . . .

Then I saw a little snippet on the side of how they view dating . . . this family does not believe in dating . . . they believe that God will lead them to their life-long mate . . . okay I'm not sure about all that . . . but then there was this . . .

They do NOT believe in pre-marital kissing or pre-marital alone time . . . !!! . . . . really, you gotta be kidding me? right?

I mean I will not open the can of worms of pre-marital sex, believe what you want . . .

But pre-marital kissing . . . it's just a kiss and who knows maybe you've just agreed to marry one of the frogs you're SUPPOSE to kiss before your Prince Charming . . . . and zero alone time . . . this is something I'm very much against . . . I know for sure that I'm way different around my family than I am when Hubby and I are alone and he is the different as well . . . I just don't think it's a good idea to have two people committ to life-long marriage . . . . "until death do we part" to someone they have never kissed or spent any alone time with . . . .

My Hubby and I both dated different people before getting together . . . but I think that's the way it was suppose to happen . . . I needed to go through a few frogs to realize what a great guy Hubby is . . . and I'm thinking it was the same for him . . . and I still remember our first kiss and how electric it was and how it made me realize that I was falling for him . . . And the alone time . . . the snuggling and laughing and mushy things we said . . . I can't imagine having to wait for all of that . . . and what if you didn't choose the right person . . .

oh . . . they would so dissaprove of my history . . . and my internet usage . . . oh well . . .